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Pre-New Year's Eve Open Thread

What are your plans for the evening? What are you most excited to say goodbye to?

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    Happy 14th anniversary to my amazing wife! (5.00 / 4) (#1)
    by Dadler on Fri Dec 31, 2010 at 02:45:49 PM EST
    On New Year's Eve 1996, a girl from a solid, stable family wed a boy from a mess of dysfunction.  A few times early on they almost didn't make it.  But here they are. I am humbled and grateful for her love every day.

    Peace and happy new year, y'all.

    Congrats (5.00 / 1) (#2)
    by Ga6thDem on Fri Dec 31, 2010 at 02:52:08 PM EST
    to you!

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    Happy anniversay! (5.00 / 1) (#9)
    by Anne on Fri Dec 31, 2010 at 04:33:00 PM EST
    Here's to many more, and to lots of fun along the way.

    Just celebrated 30 years in August - I can't even tell you how fast it went, but it's been a heck of a ride, for sure.

    Happiest of New Year's to you and your family.

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    Congratulations Dadler... (5.00 / 1) (#13)
    by desertswine on Fri Dec 31, 2010 at 05:09:56 PM EST
    ...and wishes for many more to come. Nothing is more important than the people who love you, or the people you love.

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    Congrats,and btw, marriage (none / 0) (#16)
    by observed on Fri Dec 31, 2010 at 05:30:22 PM EST
    is good protection against bachelor's CTS:P

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    rimshot please! (none / 0) (#23)
    by Dadler on Fri Dec 31, 2010 at 06:54:10 PM EST
    Congrats to both of you (none / 0) (#18)
    by ruffian on Fri Dec 31, 2010 at 05:40:32 PM EST
    You sound like a lucky couple! May you have many many more New Years Eves together.

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    Thank you everyone! (none / 0) (#22)
    by Dadler on Fri Dec 31, 2010 at 06:53:08 PM EST
    Time to hit the sofa for a quiet night of watching something or other.  Cocktails ahoy!

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    2010 (5.00 / 1) (#3)
    by Ga6thDem on Fri Dec 31, 2010 at 02:56:28 PM EST
    has been a really tough year for us with my husband being out work for a while and then getting a job that pays less but thankfully not a whole lot less.

    We were going to have some friends over but she called this morning to say that she has a bad heachache and might not be able to make it. That's okay since it really wasn't anything big planned anyway. If the friends don't come over, I might just go to bed early.

    Happy New Year to BTD and Jeralyn! I wish you both the best possible 2011!

    Staying in tonight (5.00 / 2) (#4)
    by Zorba on Fri Dec 31, 2010 at 03:04:46 PM EST
    Mr. Z won't go out on New Year's Eve- he thinks there are too many drunks out, and he's probably right.  We have champagne chilling, shrimp cocktail, and an assortment of lovely cheeses a dear friend sent us for Christmas, plus some left-over (and pretty darned good, if I say so myself) blanquette de veau that I made yesterday.  So we'll graze the food, and drink champagne.  May the New Year find you all healthy and happy.  (And a Happy St. Basil's Day, as well- his Feast Day is tomorrow, and he's a popular saint in the Eastern Orthodox Church.  The Greeks make a sweet bread or bread-like cake for St. Basil's Day, and hide a coin in it.  Whoever gets the piece of bread with the coin, will have good luck all year.  My loaf of Vasilopita, as we call it, is rising, even as I type.)  

    Staying in, too... (5.00 / 2) (#5)
    by Anne on Fri Dec 31, 2010 at 03:47:26 PM EST
    New Year's Eve has never been one of my favorite holidays - most people pack way too much expectation into it, try way to hard to have the best time EVER, and are usually disappointed.

    We have a great layered goat cheese spread (kalamata olive spread, pesto and roasted red peppers in separate layers between layers of goat cheese) with water crackers and mini-toasts, some small steaks, fresh asparagus, baby new potatoes, and an assortment of desserts accumulated over the last week, and a couple of good wines to enjoy with it all.

    We'll be lucky to make it til midnight, but that's okay!

    Best of everything to you and Mr. Z as you ring in the new year...

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    And to you (5.00 / 2) (#6)
    by Zorba on Fri Dec 31, 2010 at 03:56:50 PM EST
    as well, Anne.  (The layered goat cheese spread sounds really good, BTW.)

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    Mrs. Greek, you might (none / 0) (#14)
    by observed on Fri Dec 31, 2010 at 05:10:12 PM EST
    be interested in what I had last night: Ar menian lentil soup, made with eggplant and apricots(!), garnished with yogurt, mint and parsley. It was exotic and very good.

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    I have some Armenian friends (none / 0) (#19)
    by Zorba on Fri Dec 31, 2010 at 06:09:35 PM EST
    And I love their food.  They use a lot of fruits and nuts in their cooking.  Their pilafs are great, too.  Happy New Year!  Or, as we say, Χρόνια Πολλά!

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    Mmmm....I think (none / 0) (#21)
    by observed on Fri Dec 31, 2010 at 06:31:42 PM EST
    I need to try Mahdzoon Chicken

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    Can I come (5.00 / 2) (#7)
    by Ga6thDem on Fri Dec 31, 2010 at 04:14:12 PM EST
    and eat at your house sometime? You sound like you have the best dinners!

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    Well, they're not like that every night... (5.00 / 1) (#8)
    by Anne on Fri Dec 31, 2010 at 04:30:21 PM EST
    I can assure you, but there's always room at the table for guests!

    Once in a while, it's grilled cheese sandwiches and tomato soup, or tacos with all the fixin's, and some nights it's everyone for him- or herself.

    But, New Year's Eve seems to call for something special, so what the heck!

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    Between (none / 0) (#11)
    by Ga6thDem on Fri Dec 31, 2010 at 04:56:09 PM EST
    you and Zorba always talking about the delicious food you fix---it makes me want to get in the kitchen and cook, cook, cook!

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    I find cooking to be therapeutic... (5.00 / 1) (#25)
    by Anne on Fri Dec 31, 2010 at 07:38:23 PM EST
    it allows me to let go of the day's cares, and tap into my creative side once in a while.

    I just plain love to cook - and bake.  I'm fortunate to come from a long line of good cooks, and I hope that is something that passes along to my own kids - so far, so good!

    Last Christmas, I put together an assortment of recipes that my kids love - that I generally just wing at this point - so they could replicate them and carry on the tradition.  I was really pleased that these recipes were probably the present they were most tickled with.

    For me, food is community and caring and connection, a way for people to talk to each other, to tell the old stories about the food or the occasions when a particular dish made its debut.

    In my family, my mother still tells the story of how, as a newlywed, she wanted to impress her in-laws by baking her father-in-law's favorite dessert: cherry pie.  This was quite brave, as my grandmother was known for the quality of her pie crust!  There was a long tradition in my father's family that if you got a piece of cherry pie with a cherry pit in it, you got a second piece of pie.  Well - you can see this one coming, can't you? - she made the pie, but with my grandfather's first bite, it was clear that my mother had made the pie with canned cherries that had not been pitted...apparently, my grandfather was as gracious as he was wise, and managed to turn the whole thing into something my mother didn't have to feel embarrassed about.

    But she still remembers her chagrin on realizing what she had done.

    Food is family and history and if I manage to do nothing else, I hope this is something my kids weave into the fabric of their own lives.

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    I feel the same (none / 0) (#29)
    by Ga6thDem on Fri Dec 31, 2010 at 08:48:15 PM EST
    way about cooking. It's a stress reliever most of the time. It's something that has a definite beginning and end and something that does allow you to be creative. I'm not much of a baker because I don't have the patience for it and because my mother is a big time baker. My mother is also not much of a cook so when I was a teenager and she wanted me to start cooking I started experimenting with recipes etc. because my mother's repertoire consisted of about ten things that we had over and over again for supper every night.

    My first and ONLY experience with cherry pie was one 4th of July we had friends coming for a pool party and I made it for desert. I used fresh cherries and so I had to pit them one by one because I only had a little hand pitter. That took literally forever and I decided that they pie was just not good enough for all that trouble. I still make other pies, however, from scratch. Maybe I will try it again another time with canned cherries but I will remember to buy the pitted ones!

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    Staying in (5.00 / 1) (#20)
    by Democratic Cat on Fri Dec 31, 2010 at 06:29:07 PM EST
    I love New Year's. It's my favorite holiday, what with all the optimism and hope. But I almost always stay in, fix noshy things to eat, open a bottle of champagne, and read one of those books I resolved to read last New Year's. I was invited to what should be a great party this year, but I'm just leaving work and am not in a party mood. So, I'm heading home for bubbly and bruschetta.

    Best of luck in the New Year to Jeralyn and BTD and all the interesting people who comment so thoughtfully here.

    Staying in too (none / 0) (#10)
    by ruffian on Fri Dec 31, 2010 at 04:51:16 PM EST
    Shocking, I know!

    I agree with Anne- the few times I have spent a lot of money to go out on New Years Eve it has not measured up to the hype.  I'd rather stay home and call people on the phone. both my sisters, a couple of friends.. A little virtual NYE party.

    Even if I fall asleep before midnite the neighborhood fireworks will wake me up!

    On TV- the end of the UCF- GA bowl game, then the last episode of Intelligence, then a movie or two.

    Go Knights!

    Going out (none / 0) (#12)
    by Ga6thDem on Fri Dec 31, 2010 at 04:57:40 PM EST
    never has been that much fun for us but having people over has been a huge success. We let them bring their kids so they don't have to get a sitter. I haven't done a big bash in a few years but I should probably start doing it again. It gives me a reason to try all those appetizer recipes I always wanted to.

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    That is the best for me too (none / 0) (#17)
    by ruffian on Fri Dec 31, 2010 at 05:38:25 PM EST
    I've had some nice New Years Eves with groups of friends at one of our houses. I like Anne's idea of eating up all the desserts too.

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    We're having posole... (none / 0) (#15)
    by desertswine on Fri Dec 31, 2010 at 05:15:13 PM EST
    It's supposed to be lucky on New Year's. Well I certainly don't want another punky year.

    We (none / 0) (#24)
    by Ga6thDem on Fri Dec 31, 2010 at 06:54:18 PM EST
    are having the traditional southern New Year's dinner of greens, black-eyed peas and corn bread. I'm superstitious that way.

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    Black-eyed-peas (none / 0) (#26)
    by Rojas on Fri Dec 31, 2010 at 07:47:50 PM EST
    Barb's has been trying to slip these damn things to us for a couple of decades now. So tonight we're going over to friends and she asks me to look up a recipe for Texas Caviar....
    I didn't put it together 'till I saw your post.

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    It's something (none / 0) (#27)
    by Ga6thDem on Fri Dec 31, 2010 at 08:41:55 PM EST
    that you have to acquire a taste for. Many people do not like them or like greens but cooking the greens definitely takes some time to figure out the best way.

    A friend of mine made a wonderful black eyed pea hummus one year for our New Year Eve's party.

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    I suppose (none / 0) (#30)
    by Rojas on Sat Jan 01, 2011 at 12:25:59 PM EST
    it's just plain stubbornness, probably simple spite. First my mom and now my wife have been pushin' those damn peas and I been resisting for as long as I can remember. It's a matter of principal at this point.

    Now collard greens and cornbread is something I do enjoy. These never came with the pressure, but now you got me suspicious. I reckon it's never going to be the same.

    I just looked at the wiki page and they trace the tradition to Jews or General Sherman. Talk about poisoning the well. The yankee arsonist or Chuckie Shumer, no wonder my appetite was spoiled.

    But really, the cowpea is a pretty amazing plant. It's a great source of nitrogen. A green fertilizer for hot dry climates. There is a lot of interest in it for sustainable agriculture. When fertilizer prices shot through the roof a couple years ago people started looking back at the old ways. Seed stock is becoming fairly common again.

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    That's interesting (none / 0) (#31)
    by Ga6thDem on Sat Jan 01, 2011 at 06:39:39 PM EST
    because southern lore is that the tradition came from African Americans who as field slaves could only eat the "garbage" crops like black eyed peas and collards.

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    Collards seem to grow (none / 0) (#32)
    by the capstan on Sat Jan 01, 2011 at 08:53:28 PM EST
    all winter in SC and I suppose Ga.  But in East Tn. I never saw them in grocery stores.  Greens there were turnip and mustard.  Collards were definitely fare for the underclasses.

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    Just returned from live radio play (none / 0) (#28)
    by oculus on Fri Dec 31, 2010 at 08:45:44 PM EST
    of "It's a Wonderful Life," program notes courtesy of Wiki!   Well done.  Now I really want to see the movie.  Followed by a mediocre dinner at a Mexican restaurant in Old Town.  Goal for the rest of 2010:  finish Justice Brennan's biography.