...His mother brings him breakfast from the vending machines – Dr Pepper, hot Cheetos and chocolate Donut Gems -- but B.B. ignores the food to rummage through a stack of board games. He gets the chess pieces set up by the time his father walks into the room.
“Want to play with me, Dad?”
It's a scene I see every time I visit a client on weekends and it's sad.
[B.B.] comes from a single-parent home, making him twice as likely to commit a felony someday as a child with both parents at home, according to research cited by the Oklahoma Criminal Justice Resource Center, a state office that collects data for the Legislature.
What’s more, B.B.’s father is incarcerated, making B.B. seven times more likely to be incarcerated himself. He’s black, making him six times more likely to go to prison eventually than a white child is. He comes from a low-income family. And attends an overcrowded school. And lives in a neighborhood troubled by gang violence.
There's a really nice photo slide show of the family. Part two will appear tomorrow.
Several years ago I wrote another post about the children of the incarcerated, based on a Salon article, "In prison again,I am the son of inmate 83A6158" by one of the chldren, Chesa Boudin. Chesa grew up and became a Rhodes scholar from Yale. His parents were jailed when he was just a toddler. He was raised by Bill Ayers and Bernadette Dohrn.
Chesa visited his parents in prison for 17 years.
Inmate 83A6158 is my father. Both my biological parents have been serving life sentences since I was 14 months old. After their arrest I was adopted by their friends, my other parents, who already had two children, my brothers. This visit may be my grandmother's last. I remember when she took care of me; now I steady her while we walk.
As we enter the loud, crowded visiting room, I rush my father. Our embrace is restricted by the wide table separating us, but it's great to feel his powerful arms around me. Usually my father is delighted when he sees me but today his eyes are sad. His best friend in prison has died of AIDS. Although prison deaths are common, this untimely news casts a pall.
America, prison nation. Hopefully, our new President will urge some changes in our criminal justice system. That's the "hope and change" I'd like to see come out of this election.
