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Please Allow Me To Introduce Myself,

As you know from my TL name, I'm Jeffinalabama. I'm a baby boomer, and like many boomers, been married and divorced, with a child. I decided to re-introduce myself in this, my inaugural diary here at TalkLeft.

First and foremost, let me state again much gratitude to Jeralyn for letting me become a diarist here. I will do my best to not let the history or principals of this site down.

Secondly, you get to read all about me, me, me, in the full text.

I do live in Alabama. Born here, raised here. I have a southern accent, especially after consuming fermented beverages. I've lived in all sections of the state except the Gulf Coast counties, so my interests often represent this state. and how law, policy, and attitudes affect Alabama, and even Georgia and Mississippi.

Medgar Evers, the assasinated Mississippi civil rights worker, is one of my role models. Evers once said, "If we don't like what the Republicans do, we need to get in there and change it." Same holds true for the Democrats.

Evers also said, "I don't know if I'm going to Heaven or if I'm going to Hell. I DO know that I'll be going FROM Mississippi."  Good Lord willing and the creeks don't rise, I feel the same way about my state.

A second role model is a fellow from around Troy, Alabama, John Lewis, who, while with the Student Nonviolent Coordinating Committee (SNCC), led the Bloody Sunday march over the Edmund Pettus Bridge in Selma. The event and subsequent coverage and marches changed my life. Lewis, or Congressman Lewis, now represents the 5th District in Georgia. If you ever have the chance to hear him speak on the floor on C-Span, take a listen.

In my pantheon also are Morris Dees and Bill Baxly, both attorneys here in Alabama. Dees started the Southern Poverty Law Center, and financially broke the Klan, among other wonderful accomplishments.

Baxley was the Alabama attorney General who was made an "honorary n*gger" by the KKK for re-opening the 16th Street Baptist Chuch bombing that occurred in Birmingham in 1963.

Baxley's reply, on official state letterhead: "My response to your letter of February 19, 1976, is--kiss my ass."

Disclaimer: I worked for his gubernatorial campaign, and proudly have on my wall an honorary Colonelship from his time as Lt. Governor.

But don't let that fool you or impress you. I'm lucky to have gotten to where I am, higher education in the liberal arts, Sociology to be specific.

Sociology's a great background from which to discuss issues here. Geez, this is a law site, so it's chock full o'lawyers, government folks, people in the know in DC, and of course Armando and Jeralyn.

I live in the margins. Seriously, I think I'm on the outside looking in... Rural Alabama, LA as some folks call it, Lower Alabama, 30 miles from southwestern Georgia, and about 120 miles from from southeastern Mississippi.

Let's see, I like beutiful sunsets, long walks on the beach, world peace, and people just being excellent to one another-- oh, that's my match dot com description, sorry (blushing furiously).

I come from poor folks. My parents, no, they were middle class, and made it there based on such programs as the GI Bill. But THEIR parents were poor. My parents grew up during the First Great Depression, malnourished, often sent to live with relatives or family friends who could afford to feed them, with no real medical or dental care. If it was bad enough, my mother's family would call a faith healer, because he'd work for a meal of chicken and dumplings, or even free, since it was his calling. Me, I grew up with a lot of middle to upper middle class life chances.

Thus, life chances, poverty, hunger, the effects of the 21st Century on small-town folks and life, racism, classism, I'd say these, with the addition of health issues, these provide the background and perspective I come from.

I'll have to add the US Army to that, also. Issues of the military, Defense, soldiers and sailors and airmen especially-- enlisted folks-- I advocate for them, since they don't have much of a voice. And I fear and loathe the Military-Industrial Complex and its power, while not blaming at all the regular working folks within it.

As of today, this writing, I have been diagnosed with prostate cancer, with biosies to come in a couple of weeks. Prostate cancer is bad enough, but I was RIFed in May-- Reduction in Force, from the community college that used to employ me. So  my insurance runs out Aug 30, and I don't even know what the COBRA rates will be.

I'll be discussing cancer treatment, dealing with the government on health care, food stamps, unemployment eligibility and lapses there, possible bankruptcy, fear, anxiety, insecurity, and other issues from the personal as well as structural level.

I'll try to do my homework on these issues. Since I used to teach, and may one day find a university again, I want my facts straight, my assumptions known, and my argument and conclusions concise.

I don't insult quite as well as Armando used to, but if he'll be my mentor, I'll gladly be his protoge there, even if he does support the Florida Gators.

So... here I am. First person descriptions seem so egocentric. all that "I" and "Me" stuff. let's use this diary as a chance to introduce ourselves with as much information as we want to give. Lurkers, I know you're there! Come on out of the background for a moment! you can always go back.

TalkLeft is a community. Community members know each other. Jeralyn and BTD don't have time to do something like this. I don't want to call it a roll call, because it isn't. Some folks won't post anything because of personal, job, or legal reasons.

Let's see if Jeralyn's trust in me was misplaced!

Jeffinalabama@gmail.com

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    Great job for a first diary! (5.00 / 1) (#1)
    by jbindc on Fri Jul 22, 2011 at 03:18:51 PM EST
    Can't wait to read some more.

    My thoughts are with you as you face these issues.  You can do it, though.  Even across the blogosphere, you seem like you're made of steel.

    Keep the faith.

    jb, (5.00 / 1) (#2)
    by jeffinalabama on Fri Jul 22, 2011 at 03:26:17 PM EST
    I didn't tell anyone, but the first poster in my new diary career wins a bottle of Cutty Sark.

    Congratulations! Do you want me to drink it for you, or mail it to you? ;-)


    I think (5.00 / 1) (#4)
    by jbindc on Fri Jul 22, 2011 at 03:27:48 PM EST
    You should drink it and savor it.  :)

    I will raise a glass of brewed iced tea to you in response!

    Parent

    Good job Jeffrey... (5.00 / 1) (#32)
    by kdog on Mon Jul 25, 2011 at 11:36:13 AM EST
    look forward to your dropped science in many a diary!

    And if you all don't know me by now...34 years on the orb, Queens NY born and raised.  One of four kids, dear old dad was a machinist, an ex-con who learned his trade in the joint.  An alcoholic who was on the wagon for over ten years till my siblings and I reached adulthood.  A tough s.o.b., rough around the edges, but a true heart of gold.  My hero from whom I inherited my politics and worldviews, though they are contstantly evolving and forever questioned.  The more I learn the less I understand, and the more confused I get:) Moms did all kinds of sh*tty jobs, and fulltime homemaker, a true saint who held the fam together through thick and thin and still does. Hoping we can make her retirement happen soon.

    College dropout...didn't see the point of wasting money finishing, no profession interested me besides maybe beach bum, and I learned more from the library and life than university.  Great keggers though:)  Bummed around Fla for a few years before settling in the ghetto 'burbs of Long Island.  Occupation = Cube Jockey...no passion for it, but it funds my passions, namely the sex drugs rock-n-roll trinity, and all round enjoying life or dying trying.

    Renaissance man, many passions, master of none. Like to think I bring a street perspective to the debate, leavin' the fancy book learnin' to y'all.  Generally disgusted with the state of the union, specifically issues of crime and punishment and our embarrassing addiction to caging human beings.  Mad love for humanity, no love for the inhumane systems we've created to enslave us.  The pathetic war on drugs got me into politics...an independent who would never identify with either of the crooked parties.

    Talkleft addict since 2003 or so, never really bothered with any other blogs. Learned so much and made so many cyber-friends here, eternally grateful to Jeralyn for letting me haunt her fine blog all these years.

    Gosh, I guess (5.00 / 1) (#39)
    by Ga6thDem on Thu Aug 04, 2011 at 06:44:41 PM EST
    I should jump in here. Everybody knows the general area of where I live due to my blogging name. My real name is kind of unusual and people who hear my name first are generally shocked when they meet me because they first of all think I'm Hispanic and then if not Hispanic African American. Kind of weird growing up in the south with a name that isn't Susan, Becky, Debra or Cathy for those us born in the same year that John F. Kennedy won the White House.

    I have a four year degree from a liberal arts college. I've been in retail, credit but mostly in insurance for the last 20 years and believe me I am their worst nightmare when they get me on the phone and start spewing their BS because I know for sure it's BS.

    I've been married to the same guy, a former conservative, for 25 years and he is even further left of me right now! He watches Lawrence O'Donnell every night but I just can't take ole Larry much these days.

    I have had numerous experiences with family members who have cancer mostly on my husband's side (his family has been eaten up with cancer as we say down here in the south) but most recently my father who died almost exactly three years ago. His was pancreatic and that is some nasty stuff and it takes you down quick. Fortunately, the type of cancer you have has a better cure rate than what he had.

    You're going to laugh at this but I was blogging on Kos back in 2002 when he just had a little blog. Mydd was bigger than Kos back then and my youngest son who is now 10 was just a baby. Blogging has been a wonderful way to "vent" my frustrations and Talk Left has a smaller community which i like because you really get to "know" people.

    Anyway, enough about me and I hope your test results come back with some good or hopeful news.


    I think I didn't discover Kos until the (none / 0) (#40)
    by jeffinalabama on Wed Aug 10, 2011 at 02:32:40 PM EST
    04 elections... I think I was just in time for the pie fight, or it was one weekend or so before I got there.

    Good job on converting hubby!

    I love your thoughts on insurance. Just your suggestion that they send an itemized bill... priceless!

    Parent

    Great diary, thanks! (none / 0) (#3)
    by observed on Fri Jul 22, 2011 at 03:26:35 PM EST
    Will you make the Wreck List? Oops, wrong "liberal" site.

    I'm 49, soon to be 50, so I'm also part of "Generation BB".
    My mother grew up in the Depression, in Gary West Virginia, a coal mining town.
    What boggles my mind is how people can't imagine how bad life can get, in a short time, and from seemingly small changes.
    I myself have been more of a grasshopper than an ant, but at least I  think I get the idea of hard times!

    On a related note, the way some people argue about finances as if there were only political gain or loss at stake really disgusts me.
    Take away people's support and some WILL die.

    What kind of topics are you planning to discuss?

    Military, (5.00 / 0) (#7)
    by jeffinalabama on Fri Jul 22, 2011 at 03:39:21 PM EST
    economic hardship, health, but not necessarily in that order. I'm also open to suggestion. If it's a topic I can't handle, I'll gladly say so. For instance, reproductive rights in Kansas? out of my league.

    Reminds me, my grandparents never threw away anything, it seems. Jar of baby food? great for preserves, for example. Drying out coffee grounds to split with fresh ones... bitter, but still caffienated. A family with 7 children and 2 adults, one piece of chicken per person, and the mom always said, "I'll take the neck. I like neckbones."

    Parent

    I'd be interested to know the latest (5.00 / 0) (#12)
    by observed on Fri Jul 22, 2011 at 03:47:33 PM EST
    on the effects of DU.
    I seem to recall reading that Fallujah is heavily poisoned with it.

    Parent
    Not a great (5.00 / 0) (#15)
    by jeffinalabama on Fri Jul 22, 2011 at 03:51:19 PM EST
    area for me, but
    I'll find out.

    Parent
    When I say not a great area, (none / 0) (#31)
    by jeffinalabama on Sat Jul 23, 2011 at 02:49:00 PM EST
    let me be a little more specific-- I haven't heard much at all about the environmental impact yet in Iraq, I don't know if any studies/examinations have taken place yet. I ought to be able to find out if any are in progress or planned, but maybe not enough specifics.

    However, rattling cages never hurts.

    Parent

    Did your mom recycle all the wrapping (none / 0) (#16)
    by oculus on Fri Jul 22, 2011 at 03:52:18 PM EST
    paper and ribbon?  How about watering down the milk from dairy delivery and adding powdered milk?  

    Parent
    How did you know? (5.00 / 1) (#30)
    by jeffinalabama on Sat Jul 23, 2011 at 02:42:55 PM EST
    Always wondered why milk tasted good for a couple of days, and then all watery...

    Tried that with my son and ex... it did NOT go over well, so I began using that for baking.

    Parent

    Since observed made a couple (5.00 / 3) (#29)
    by MO Blue on Sat Jul 23, 2011 at 09:50:47 AM EST
    of statements that so clearly reflect my viewpoint on some elements of the current debate. I guess I'll jump in here with my comment.

    Although I missed the official BB era by 1 1/2 to 2 years, I probably am more a product of that demographic than of the earlier Greatest Generation. Or maybe I'm a hybrid of both.

    My mom was one of ten children and due to the death of her mother and her father's ill health was raised in a Catholic orphanage. Her formal education ended after grade school. My father, a very smart man, never went beyond the 4th. grade.

    My father went through some horrible experiences in WWII which caused him major problems throughout his life and as a result I was raised mainly by my mother.

    My mother probably never weighed more than 110 pounds soaking wet and did hard physical labor all of her life and received low wages for her efforts through most of my early childhood. More than a few time she struggled to find the means to put food on the table. We weren't as poor as some of the people Jeff has reference but times were not easy. She managed to get a union factory job about the time I started high school doing piece work. The work was still extremely hard physical labor but she did received a living wage.

    I guess this is where I am going to borrow some of what observed wrote so well.


    What boggles my mind is how people can't imagine how bad life can get, in a short time, and from seemingly small changes.
    ...
    On a related note, the way some people argue about finances as if there were only political gain or loss at stake really disgusts me.
    Take away people's support and some WILL die.

    There is no way on this god's earth that my mom could have worked until she was 69 or 70. She barely made it through to early retirement at 62 and she paid a real price for even working that long. Had she not been able to retire at 62 she would have not made it even to her 70s. "Take away people's support and some WILL die."

    So when people with no skin in the game callously ignore the real world effects that the proposed cuts to domestic and safety net programs will have on people - down play them as not so draconian or something we all must accept so that Obama can win - stating my real reaction would severely violate TL's rules.

    This is turning into a book (much too long) and not a comment so maybe more later.        

    Parent

    Pre BB here. Parents, from S. IL, were (none / 0) (#5)
    by oculus on Fri Jul 22, 2011 at 03:35:21 PM EST
    most definitely children of the Depression and never forgot it.  Amazingly, both completed college degrees.  

    This diary may change the prevailing culture at TL.  Perhaps we too will read more than the front page!

    Where in So IL? I've lived in (none / 0) (#6)
    by observed on Fri Jul 22, 2011 at 03:38:17 PM EST
    Cdale.

    Parent
    Litchfield and Metropolis--can't (none / 0) (#8)
    by oculus on Fri Jul 22, 2011 at 03:39:28 PM EST
    be any further south in IL than that.  Two of my siblings went to SIU.  

    Parent
    Lol, go Superman! (5.00 / 1) (#9)
    by observed on Fri Jul 22, 2011 at 03:42:15 PM EST
    I have a friend who has done ER shifts in Metropolis (and may still be doing so).
    Several years ago, he saved the life of then Governor Fletcher of KY.  
    He had the most outrageous stories about stupid people and how they landed in the ER.
    For example, a 19 year old kid wanted to whiten his teeth, so he put chlorine bleach one them.
    Problem solved---no more teeth!!

    Parent
    Geez. What are they teaching (none / 0) (#10)
    by jeffinalabama on Fri Jul 22, 2011 at 03:45:36 PM EST
    in Chemistry classes nowadays? Anybody should know hydrochloric acid works better than bchlorine bleach.

    snark warning... don't even THINK about drinking hydrochloric acid, even by mistake!

    Parent

    My mother told a story which always stuck (none / 0) (#11)
    by oculus on Fri Jul 22, 2011 at 03:45:40 PM EST
    w/me.  Her father, who didn't work-alcoholic--didn't want her to go to college.  Her mother--who worked hard--gave her $150 as she waited for the bus to go to college on scholarship.  That was it as far as parental financial support.  

    Parent
    This reminds me of something (none / 0) (#14)
    by observed on Fri Jul 22, 2011 at 03:51:12 PM EST
    related to Obama's cheery remarks about the Civil War and compromise.
    While I lived there, I thought I learned that slavery existed in Southern Il and Southern IN AFTER the Civil War, for a few years.
    Is this what Obama was talking about?

    Parent
    When I spoke to my mother by phone (none / 0) (#17)
    by oculus on Fri Jul 22, 2011 at 03:54:41 PM EST
    just after MLK murder and mentioned a march in which my neighbor was participating, my mother sd., why should I march, I didn't kill him.  Surprised me a great deal as she never uttered racist thoughts or discriminated against people.  Not that she had much opportunity in our decidely non-diverse SE Iowa hometown.  

    Parent
    My mother had a very racist (none / 0) (#20)
    by observed on Fri Jul 22, 2011 at 04:02:31 PM EST
    upbringing, but overcame that to a great degree. It is mostly in evidence in very odd things she will say about races: for example, she once said (uttering this as if it were a universally known truism) that Chinese people usually look older than their age compared to white people.
    Silent head scratching is best at these moments.

    Parent
    I forgot my info (none / 0) (#13)
    by jbindc on Fri Jul 22, 2011 at 03:50:27 PM EST
    I can say I was born when LBJ was president, although it was for only a few more days (January '69). That makes me a Gen X'er.

    Grew up in metro Detroit with 3 sisters. One has an Associate's degree and a Bachelor's degree, one has a BA and Master's degree, one is finishing her Master's in December, and I have a BS, MBA, and JD.

    Dad - 2 years college, but never finished. He was an accountant / Assistant Controller for a small industrial company, then retired and started a van shuttle service to the airport - did that for 10 years or so.

    Mom - bachelor's and graduate degrees in Education (she was an elementary school teacher, and spent the last 40 years of her career in kindergarten).

    Most in the family are politically left - granfathers were both coal miners (one left to move to Detroit and worked as an autoworker). Mom, and several aunts and uncles were teachers, dad once helped organize a strike at his place of employment in the 70s!

    I'm allergic to animals, my favorite color is green, I've had a new boyfriend for about 4 months, I once rode a camel (in Arizona, of all places), my favorite food is chocolate (and steak - but not together), and I was once an extra in a country music video.


    When my youngest sibling started 1st (none / 0) (#18)
    by oculus on Fri Jul 22, 2011 at 03:56:58 PM EST
    grade, my mother started teaching again.  First assignment:  6th grade.  But from then on:  kindergarten in an economically depressed neighborhood.  She thrived.  

    Parent
    I don't know how mom did it (5.00 / 1) (#22)
    by jbindc on Fri Jul 22, 2011 at 04:20:39 PM EST
    I was in her classroom once and she slipped out to use the bathroom (can't just go when you want in that kind of job).  The door hadn't clicked closed when I kinda lost control of the class.  At first, I had 25 pair of eyes pe