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it is a class issue (none / 0) (#48)
by Kathy on Mon Mar 10, 2008 at 03:43:20 PM EST
inasmuch as wealthy men can pay for the privilege of raping women in a clean hotel room while men with less money are confined to their cars or alleyways.

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Easy Kathy.... (5.00 / 3) (#56)
by kdog on Mon Mar 10, 2008 at 03:48:32 PM EST
do you mean to imply that any sex for money arrangement is rape?

That's ridiculous, and a diservice to rape victims, imo.

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But, (none / 0) (#49)
by Oje on Mon Mar 10, 2008 at 03:44:56 PM EST
Just in the venue? or in the propensity and frequency also?

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Rape? (none / 0) (#64)
by squeaky on Mon Mar 10, 2008 at 03:52:45 PM EST
How is consensual, or contractual sex rape. I am sure that there are exceptions, but as a rule?

Is it also rape in your mind when a man is the sex worker and a woman the john?

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Or same sex prostitution? (none / 0) (#70)
by sarcastic unnamed one on Mon Mar 10, 2008 at 03:54:16 PM EST


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yep. I worked with 14 year old boys (none / 0) (#109)
by Kathy on Mon Mar 10, 2008 at 04:34:14 PM EST
runaways-and had the same opinion.  Same for older men.

I define rape as being forced to have sex with someone you do not want to have sex with.  You can make all the noises about how they get paid for it, so that makes it okay, or that they make a lot of money, so that's okay, or that they are not beaten, or forced to give half and halfs in the backseat of a car, so that's okay.

Me-having worked with these women (and men)-I can't.

But I don't think legalizing or not is the issue.  Prostitution is legal in Amsterdam but oftentimes it's hard to find workers.  Society creates the supply and demand.

This is very off-topic, so I'll stop before Jeralyn or BTD pop me on the nose, but it seems to be that some people have very lofty ideas about what exactly happens during these transactions.  I could tell you some real horror stories that would turn your stomach-and not just isolated cases, but constant, daily barrages of inhumane and inhuman treatment.  Pretty Woman it ain't.

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Thank you for adding to this conversation (none / 0) (#115)
by Molly Bloom on Mon Mar 10, 2008 at 04:39:47 PM EST
There is a basis for your position that was not previously clear, that gives a different perspective.

"Once in a while you get shown the light In the strangest of places if you look at it right"
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Clearly exploitation (none / 0) (#116)
by honora on Mon Mar 10, 2008 at 04:39:55 PM EST
Thanks Kathy-- You are right about this.

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All I can say is.... (none / 0) (#121)
by kdog on Mon Mar 10, 2008 at 04:42:25 PM EST
of the millions of acts of prostitution that go down everyday, the horror stories are exactly that, not the norm.

I hold no lofty ideas of how sad and stomach turning prostitution can be...the 20 dollar trick for a fix, the human trafficking, the kidnapping and rape.  A lot of humanity is sad and stomach turning.  It's all in how we deal with it...the archaic criminalization and ostracization method is an old tired failure from my view.

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I think your definition of rape is over broad, (none / 0) (#123)
by sarcastic unnamed one on Mon Mar 10, 2008 at 04:44:31 PM EST
you, of course, do not. So be it.

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Rape may be over broad, but exploitation is not. (5.00 / 1) (#125)
by Molly Bloom on Mon Mar 10, 2008 at 04:46:19 PM EST

"Once in a while you get shown the light In the strangest of places if you look at it right"
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